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Who Writes the Orders in Court?

Do you know who actually writes the orders in most Oklahoma court cases? Not the judges, they have more important things to do. Most of the final written orders that you will see have been drafted by one of the attorneys in the case. Does this surprise you? Well, if that does  — you certainly [...]

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Thinking about college. . .

Have you got a plan for college for your teenager? This is something that we are thinking about as our older son finishes up his 8th grade year at Longfellow Middle School. Today, I took a trip to the library in Norman to look through a few books on the subject. The best book I [...]

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Asking for Additional Parenting Time

Want to change up the parenting schedule, but can’t get the other parent to agree? You made need to change your approach. I have noticed that many people with visitation problems don’t seem to be able to effectively ask for additional visitation or modification to their custody schedules. In this post, I break down the [...]

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Local Parenting Magazine

For over a year I have had an idle thought that what Oklahoma needs is a resource (whether online or print) that regularly gives parents ideas about what there is to do in the Oklahoma City metro area with their children. I had even thought about developing such an idea for my law office’s website, [...]

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facebook Security

Lately, I have had a few facebook contacts choose to limit the information or even limit the contacts (aka “friends”) that are connected to their facebook accounts. When I have discussed this with them, many have said that they feel like facebook is not private and they wanted to change how their information was shared. [...]

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15 Rules for Testfying

It is not easy to get up on the stand, but if you are planning on testifying anytime soon you would be wise to review these fifteen (15)  rules for testifying. Tell the Truth – Honesty is the best policy. Tell the truth about what you know, you saw, you did, and be careful about [...]

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10 Biggest “Don’ts” During a Family Law Case

The other day at lunch with another family lawyer here in Norman, we began discussing the things that our clients do that make their cases so much harder. Out of the discussion I have come up with ten things that one should not do during their family law case. Why? Because each of these things [...]

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2012 Change is Good!

Happy New Year! Now that is 2012 and the beginning of a new year we can take stock of the past and decide what good from last year we are going to take into this new year and what bad we are going to leave. It may be cliche to make those resolutions, but it [...]

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Awards of Attorney Fees

The divorce court is empowered by statute to award attorney fees in a divorce case. In particular, the broadest statute for the ward of attorney fees and costs is Title 43 O.S. Section 110. Section 110 reads in part: D. Upon granting a decree of dissolution of marriage, annulment of a marriage, or legal separation, [...]

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Splitting the Baby

One of the most frustrating parts of family law is that there are rarely clear winners and losers. Once a client asked me, “Mr. Taylor, what is your win-loss ratio.” My response was “What do you consider a win or a loss?” Too many times a family law case evades classification of a clear win [...]

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